A heavily pregnant lady, who’s expecting to deliver soon, seeks advice over her husband who has flatly refused to let a male doctor perform CS on her.
The lady expressed her ordeal while writing anonymously on a platform.
She revealed that she’s expected to deliver soon and when she and her husband visited their doctor for scans, he revealed that she would need a cesarean section delivery method.
However, her husband has refused to let such happen, especially by the hands of a male doctor.
According to her, her husband said that it is a ‘haram’ for a man to see her nakedness.
“I am a niqabite 23yrs,my hubby is a tebliq 40yrs,I am 7month pregnant,the last time we visited d hospital(LASUTH),d doctor said | might do CS.my hubby is saying it’s haram 4a man to see my nakedness,pls do we have a female doc on the TL dat can come 2my house&help me in delivering my baby,” she wrote.
Check out reactions that followed…
mheenarh__ said: “All I have to tell you is that if anything sup and you kpai, he’d marry another woman.”
revive_stylee wrote: “I understand your husband Dey cr@ze O, it’s your own that is not clear to me”
_sommie__ penned: “What are you people even marrying sef!”
driyamamirabel commented: “When you and your husband is ready to welcome child go to the hospital and do the needful! Rubbish, you didn’t even say you would go and meet the female surgeon you said she should come to your house and do the caesarean section for you. Asin she should come with her equipment”
oluwabomiii stated: “With the level of civilization and death rate during childbirth there is one daddy that is insisting on female doctors. What women go through in the hands of being married sha. Please female doctors in the house should help o”
literally_sosa wrote: “Your husband is an ozuor and he wants you to kpai so that he can marry the next available naive niqabi”
ezinneugoala warned: “Until you enter a coma you will understand what life is. Madam get rid of that man”
Meanwhile, in other news, These days, a lot of women have begun considering 30’s to be the perfect time to have a baby. A few of the reasons include that they feel more settled in their career, are more financially stable, and have also gained the wisdom to better tackle the challenges that accompany motherhood. Due to the aforementioned reasons, women now prefer having kids later rather than sooner nowadays.
As one of the sayings rightfully states: “age is just a number”. But, it is still important to ensure a good lifestyle to maximize your physical health before you decide to delve into pregnancy, even more so at a later stage. If you are planning to put your plans of having a baby on hold for some time, we bring you some facts that can help you make a well-informed decision.
First, let’s discuss the advantages of having a baby after the age of 30. Here, have a look:
1. Fiscal Stability
This is one of the most common reasons for women to make the choice of having kids after 30’s. After turning 30, you are more financially settled. And, you have also become much wiser about expenses and savings, and make better money-related decisions.
2. Relationship Is More Stable:
Soon after getting married, you are still in the process of discovering each other. You may even have all sorts of fights, in the process of which you will begin understanding each other better. So, by the time you turn 30, you are more adept at providing a stable, healthy environment for your little one to grow up in.
3. Have a Solid Support System:
If you become pregnant at the age of 25, you may be the only girl among your peers to have made the decision. So, you will find yourself running to people much older than you for advice. But, if you become pregnant at a later stage, you will have a close set of friends who you can share that experience with.
4. You Would Have Experienced Much More
When you become pregnant at a young age, you may find yourself regretting the fact that you haven’t had enough experiences. But, having traveled, worked, and lived many adventures, you feel more content and more ready to take on the challenges that come along with motherhood.
